Two lines that really set my nerves on edge are "Why should I have to ......" or the frequently heard "How come they get .....", always seeming to come from someone who thinks they're getting something less than their fair share of heaven only knows what, or that someone else is getting more than their fair share of that something.
I've known people who seem to keep ledgers in their heads. It's like there's some kind of adding machine that keeps working out a bottom line that keeps getting revised and which illustrates some sort of obviously uncorrected outrage while asking either overtly or implicitly: "Don't you agree with me?????"
I find I have precious little tolerance for such mindsets.
Mr. Malcontent from the hospital gurney is merely one example: https://licn.typepad.com/my_weblog/2021/05/leave-your-sense-of-justice-at-home-john-dunn-consultant-ambertec-pe-pc.html
I hear it coming from politicians, from elected officials and from wanna-be officials. One really angry voice on the radio caught my attention with (my paraphrase) "You think that??? You just wait 'till I get elected and you'll see what happens then!!!!"
Yes, threats are also part of the baggage.
A basic respect for civics and civility, a basic grasp that there are people out there who have different circumstances and different needs compared to one's own, these traits seem very much absent from much public discourse. That lack of respect seems to have roots.
My wife who taught high school offered an interesting perspective. Many modern adults never learned in elementary school to stand in line in size places. That minimal failure to require compliance has now escalated, expanded and to my thinking, has run amok with Covid-19 and has led to the tragic results of 800,000 deaths in the US alone.
My urgent suggestion is that if you who are reading this have not been vaccinated, please get vaccinated.
Please don't be like the mother of two I read about in the news who feared vaccination side effects, who did not get vaccinated, who then contracted the Delta variant of Covid-19, who was placed on a respirator for a month and who then died.
Please see:
https://www.msn.com/en-us/health/medical/a-missouri-woman-didnt-want-a-covid-19-vaccine-for-fear-of-side-effects-she-caught-the-delta-variant-and-died/ar-AALLjAZ